Answering Children’s Questions about Divorce

⁣Why are you getting a divorce?

Children often want to understand the reason behind the divorce. Explain
simply, 'Mom and Dad have decided that we can be better parents and happier
people if we live separately. This decision is not because of anything you did.

Where will I live?

Children need to know about their living arrangements. Tell them, 'You will
spend weekdays with Mom and weekends with Dad,' or 'We will have two homes, and
you will have your own room in each.

Will I still see both of you?

Reassure them, 'Yes, you will spend time with both of us. We will make sure
you get to see each of us regularly.

Is it my fault?

It’s crucial to
reassure your children that the divorce is not their fault. Say, 'No, this is
not your fault at all. This is a decision between Mom and Dad, and we both love
you very much.

Will you get back together?

Be honest but gentle: 'We have decided that living separately is best for
our family. We will always work together to take care of you, but we will not
be getting back together.

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