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He Does These 7 Things If He Wants A Serious Relationship With You
By: Carlos Cavallo

What does a man want? Even more important: Do you know what he wants in a serious relationship with you?

Men are truly not that complicated.

When it comes to our needs in a relationship, we don't have a whole lot that you need to worry about.

But you do have to be sure that you're not trying to give him what YOU want - instead of what HE wants.

It's one of the most common mistakes people make. They tend to give other people what it is they themselves are looking for instead of what the other person really wants.

Men don't want exactly the same thing you do, or even at the same time. A lot of it overlaps, but you have to know how men think - and when they think it.

Some of the advice you've probably heard that men want:

Get to his heart through his stomach - cook for him

Satisfy him in the bedroom like no one else

Be a difficult bitch with him

Be nice to him and never ask for anything

The problem with this kind of advice is that there are small bits of Truth in them. The unfortunate part is that it's not explained so you're going to make a ton of mistakes trying to apply it.

Let’s jump into what men want in a serious relationship…

WANT #1: Safety First!
One of the most misunderstood needs men have is safety.

It's not physical safety he needs, it's emotional safety.

Men understand that they are not as well equipped for handling their emotions. They know that they don't have the same kind of emotional IQ that a woman does.

Women are better at relationships, while men are better at rising to the challenge and chasing/hunting you.

But he does understand it's at a very Primal level that he needs a woman that will keep him in a safe bubble for him to express and show his feelings. This requires you to be stronger and smarter as a woman.

How do you make a man feel safe?

Well it just so happens that I created a program to help women do this called The Connection Code. Because it takes a lot of understanding how men work to know how to do this right.

But briefly, the way you make him feel safe is to make sure he never feels like he's going to be insulted or shamed or put down by you for expressing any emotion.
Men grow up knowing that if they express emotions in front of another man who is not himself a mature and balanced person, he will probably be ridiculed. Possibly even BEATEN UP! (Women don't typically ever experience this.)

This feels horrible to a man, probably the worst thing he can experience.

If he's even suspects that you will react this way - negatively, you will never get him to connect with you.
He will simply use you for physical intimacy and move on to the woman who does show him safety.

One of the best ways to explain this is to give you an example of when he doesn't feel safe:

Listening.

A man needs to know he's going to be heard by you when he talks about his feelings or the difficult things he's experiencing.

Unfortunately, what many women do is to ruin this sense of safety when he's talking about his feelings. Very often she will not hear him out completely. She will also typically interrupt him to move him forward in the conversation faster.

She gets impatient when he's taking so long to explain himself, so she jumps in and tries to get there first. What this does is it feels like a disconnect - and he shuts down.

There is a pretty good chance you've experienced this in a relationship with a guy, especially in conversation.

Unfortunately, you may not have noticed when it happened. But I can tell you he sure noticed. And he went on guard and made a decision to be very careful about doing that ever again with you.

Of course you would have fixed this in the moment, but you probably didn't know what happened. This is why it's so important to understand how men connect.

You see the problem is that if you don't catch this and fix it, it's -

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Does He Want A Serious Relationship With You?
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Lyrics

I’m going under and this time I fear there’s no one to save me
This all or nothing really got a way of driving me crazy

I need somebody to heal
somebody to know
somebody to have
somebody to hold
It’s easy to say
but it’s never the same
I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain

Now the day bleeds, into nightfall
and you’re not here, to get me through it all
I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved

I’m going under and this time I fear there’s no one to turn to
This all or nothing way of loving got me sleeping without you
Now I need somebody to know
somebody to heal
somebody to have
just to know how it feels
It’s easy to say
but it’s never the same
I guess I kinda liked the way you helped me escape

Now the day bleeds, into nightfall
and you’re not here, to get me through it all
I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved

And I tend to close my eyes when it hurts sometimes
I fall into your arms
I'll be safe in your sound til I come back around

For now the day bleeds, into nightfall
and you’re not here, to get me through it all
I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved

But now the day bleeds, into nightfall
and you’re not here, to get me through it all
I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved

I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved

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NOT GONNA DIE
Death surrounds
My heart beat slowing down
I won't take this world's abuse
I won't give up I refuse

This is how it feels when you're bent and broken
This is how it feels when your dignity's stolen
When everything you love is leaving
You hold on to what you believe in

The last thing I heard
Was you whispering goodbye
And then I heard you flat-line

No
Not gonna die tonight
We're gonna stand and fight forever
Don't close your eyes
No
Not gonna die tonight
We're gonna fight for us together
No, we're not gonna die tonight

Break their hold
Cause I won't be controlled
They can't keep their chains on me
When the truth has set me free

This is how it feels when you take your life back
This is how it feels when you finally fight back
When life pushes me, I push harder
What doesn't kill me makes me stronger

Don't you give up on me
You're everything I need
This is how it feels when you take your life back
This is how it feels when you fight back

Not gonna die
Not gonna die
Not gonna die tonight

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If that's the case, then you might be tempted to start telling yourself that you suck at relationships. And I am here to stop you in your tracks and rethink this mindset because it might just be the very thing that is sabotaging all of your relationships.

In this video, I'm going to talk about three reasons why you need to stop saying that you suck at relationships.

Reason #1 To Stop Staying "I Suck At Relationships": you tend to believe yourself. Tony Robbins famously popularized the term Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and basically what this means is that the words that we say out loud or the words we tell ourselves, we start to internalize. And if you start telling yourself that you suck at relationships, then you start believing yourself, and you stop believing in growth. I mean, have you ever met someone who just when you talk to them, they always talk about every miserable thing going on in their life.

Their cat just got cancer; they have constant headaches; they're never going to be able to travel because they don't have the money. And worse, they're complaining to you why they don't seem to have that many friends anymore, and they never get invited to parties anymore, and they wonder why. All this is a self-fulfilling prophecy. So, no more do you suck at relationships; it's that you need to work on this area of your life, and you need to improve at relationships.

Reason #2 To Stop Staying "I Suck At Relationships": you will always attract in life what you think you deserve. If you think you suck at relationships, what do you think you're going to attract into your life? A terrible relationship. And maybe you feel this way because of your parents, or the way that you were brought up because so much of what we've learned about relationships comes from our parents and our family upbringing. And maybe your parents are divorced, or perhaps they've struggled, maybe they've remarried three, four times and you think that you are faded to do the same, but I'm here to tell you it is not true. So long as you open your mind and your heart up to growing and trying to improve yourself in relationships, then you will be able to find a great relationship. Just keep working at it.

Reason #3 To Stop Staying "I Suck At Relationships": you blame everything on yourself. Look, sometimes relationships don't work out. And for some people who are spectacularly unlucky at love, sometimes you're just going to have to kiss some toads before you meet your prince. So stop blaming yourself for every single thing that's wrong. Should you be aware of the things you can improve on? Absolutely. But at the same time, realize that dating is truly a numbers game. Finding love and putting yourself out there, it's just a matter of getting yourself out there, exploring what it is that you want and adjusting every single step of the way.

Stop being so mean to yourself. Stop telling yourself that you suck at relationships. I'm here to help you through every single stage of dating relationships and finding love. And remember that finding love is a verb. Love is a verb; it's not a noun. It's not some stagnant thing that you suddenly find, and you keep. It's a verb. It's something that you need to continuously work on and put energy into to have it grow. And if you'd like more resources to help you through every single stage of dating, relationships and finding love, head on over to SexyConfidence.com where we'll help you through all of this.

♥ 19 ways to win a girls heart ♥

♦1. Hugs from behind.
♦2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other(don't make her grab yours).
♦3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
♦4. Cuddle with her.
♦5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
♦6. Write little notes.
♦7. Compliment her Honestly.
♦8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
♦9. Be super sweet to her.
♦10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
♦11. Comfort her when she cries.
♦12. Wipe away her tears
♦13. Love her with all your heart.
♦14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
♦15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
♦16. Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her!
& DONT ever act diff in front of ur friends than u r when its just u and her!!!!
♦17. Take her for a long walk at night!
♦18. Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when its cold to comfort her and hold her close
♦19. NEVER LIE TO HER!!!!!! because then she will think everything you ever said to her was a lie, even "i love you"
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Album: Family values (1995)

Instrumental

Original Format: VHS, Compilation, PAL, redigitalized and recomposed from earlier publications . stereo audio
Country: Germany
Released: 25 Jan 1999

Genre: Rock / Metal / Folklore / Gothic
Part 1
1 – Lacuna Coil The Secret
2 – Sentenced Dead Leafs
3 – Skyclad Building A Ruin
4 – Pegazus Wings Of Steel
5 – Agathodaimon Banner Of Blasphemy
6 – Primal Fear Running In The Dust
7 – Covenant* Chariots of Thunder
8 – Anvil Metal On Metal
9 – Riot (4) Angel Eyes
10 –Goddess Of Desire Wimps And Bastards
11 – Tankard Maniac Forcers
12 – Benediction Agonised
13 – Haggard Lost Robinson
Part 2
14 –Bonfire Wake Up
15 –Soulburn Crabs And The Black
16 –Raise Hell Holy Target
17 –Borknagar Ocean Rise
18 –Children Of Bodom Lake Bodom
19 –Gorgoroth Revelation Of Doom
20 –Iced Earth Melancholy
21 –Warrior (6) Fighting For The Earth
22 –In Extremo Villeman Og Magnhild

DVD 2, the main film, contains the beginning years up to a complete documentation of the 2004 “Set An Example”-Tour, the South Africa “Nothing To Prove”-Tour in 2005 and the Spain Tour in 2006. Produced and edited by Roger Ingenthron, sorry, we couldn't rip the English subtitles.

“Me And My People” is a D.I.Y.-Film that tells the story of the Spermbirds, one of Europe's first hardcore bands. It is also about the long time friendship of five young dudes from a German small town, driven by the thrill and the vision of a new social and musical era that American hardcore promised. By their own words the band tells stories from the first shows up to European tours, their records, splits and strange experiences.

Skyclad - Eindhoven / Vliegbasis 02.06.1995 "Dynamo Open Air" (TV)
Live & Interview, "Headbangers Ball"


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Acid Teardrops 0:00
Bed Of Thorns 1:28
Burn The Rain 2:30
Poison's Gone 6:12
Do Re Mi 8:26
Sappy 12:47
Jesus Doesn't Want Me For A Sunbeam 15:12
You Know You're Right 19:12
Reverse Antidote 22:48
Alone + Easy Target 24:18
I'll Stick Around 29:28
Floaty 33:20
Butterflies 37:49
Burn My Britches 41:04
Desire 43:46
Clean Up Before She Comes 46:15
The Yodel Song 49:17
What More Can I Say 51:50
Exhausted 55:22
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Sappy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wU_JLMUX6Cs
Poisons Gone - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7Pw0fNpdDU
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